A friend recently messaged me on MSN.
Friend: Darling~
Friend: It's been months already, how are you??
Me: Huh?? I think you've messaged the wrong person lah...
Friend: What??
Me: Thank God, I manage to stop you before you tell me how much you miss me /gege.
Friend: You're not kawa? Brother using comp?
Me: -_-' I am lah. Thought you messaged your bf but mistakenly message me.
Friend: What?
Me: You called me "darling".
Friend: It's just a word lah.
WTF?? Now tell me, what is wrong with this picture? A word or words, brings meaning to something. It's a means to communicate and to express yourself.
If it doesn't mean anything, then what's the point right? I could just wrqwrklgpsdavhdma.,admasklasdgasdjsad and sdl;gdkg[piwqeqeadk.c,. asdhasp? Exactly.
If anyone call me "darling" and it's just only a "word", maybe I can reply "Yes, bitch?"
No? A bit (truly an understatement) rude? How about "Yes, my lovely <3 bitch <3, how are you? ^___^ ~<3 "
Main point is the "<3" and the smiley. :P
Maybe it's just me.
HAHAHA!!! Try that, see what reaction you'll get ;) Perhaps a virtual slap? But really, I won't call another guy darling straightaway, maybe yo sexy, or hey babe ;) The reaction ranges from "Ehehehehe, ahem, yeah, I AM sexy", to "EWwwwwww!!! What the hell did you call me babe for ?!?!?" XD
ReplyDeleteDarrrrlling..
ReplyDeleteWait, I don't really like to use the word "Darling", it sounds cheesy like those 1000 episodes soap opera.
Honey?
Kekkekeke hihihiiiiiaaaa!
I hv a fren - he calls every1 he knows leng chai & leng lui. I'm not sure if it's bcoz he's a ah beng or he seriously thinks that every1 is beautiful or he's just mocking society who prefers beauty to ugliness.
.. ah, i reckon darling is fine whaaat ;p
ReplyDeleteyou're overly sensitive.
i dear everyone, male or female.
then again, i bitch every one. male or female.
lalalalalal
mort
apple: Haha, yeah will try it if there's opportunity and post the "results" lol.
ReplyDeletemj: "darling" and "dear" is like so cliche already. Every couple is using it.
mort: When small, I didn't get enough of love. :P
I have an even worst pet peeve which, I'm not sure if I want to blog yet. Some people knows it... but I don't think they know that it really bothers me.
lynnee: I know it's not that big a deal lah. But for myself I just can't do it. :)
ReplyDeleteSometimes it's ok (IMHO) coz I call ppl baby too :) if I am fond of that person or just hv the light hearted mood.
ReplyDeleteI said, "Hey, sexy!" (like the ugly fish in Yahoo! Messenger) once to 1 of my male colleagues in front of several ppl. They tot I was really flirting & into this guy. Doi!
I guess it also depends how close/type of relationship u hv with that person
ReplyDeleteIf always joke around, anything can blur out even if u don't share ur deepest secrets
I guess it also depends how close/type of relationship u hv with that person
ReplyDeleteIf always joke around, anything can blur out even if u don't share ur deepest secrets
wouldn't quite mind if it came from someone m close with, won't take it too seriously.
ReplyDeleteits comming from ppl whom i barely kno or vice versa that's irritating. i'll try a very sweet comment on the next guy that darlin/dear's me. lets see his reaction.
M.